Marching Band and a Fundraising Raffle

So Kiersten has started marching band this year. This has been a wonderful thing in many ways. The two weeks of band camp prior to the start of school helped her get over her anxiety not only about all that marching, but also about her new school in itself. (This is her first year of — *gulp* — HIGH SCHOOL.)

She has already made a bunch of new friends — a truly big deal for my mini-me, who has almost as much tendency to be socially awkward as I do. And I think she’s even more motivated to do well in her classes this year. I’m excited for her, and I can’t wait to start going to football games and seeing her take the field.

There is, however, one small negative to marching band. It is freaking expensive.

Annual fees alone are kind of scary. I’m very fortunate that I’ve done enough freelance work over the past couple of months that I’ve earned enough to cover that hit to our budget. But it barely begins to cover what will be our biggest expense this year: the annual Spring Break trip.

It is so very cool that marching band has a huge Spring Break trip every year. I know it will give Kiersten some amazing opportunities to travel not only the country but also the world. This year, the kids are going to Disneyworld in Orlando, and they’ll actually get to participate in a recording session at Disney. That’s an incredible opportunity.

And it’s going to cost somewhere between $1,300 to $1,500.

I don’t, of course, believe we’ll have to pay entirely out of pocket for this. There is a fantastic Blue & Gold Sausage fundraiser coming up that should help us cover some expenses. Eric’s coworkers have already let him know they’ll be interested when he brings the brochures to work. (And if any of you Bartians out in Readerland would also be interested, please let me know! It’s yummy sausage – Eric bought some from a previous year’s fundraiser.)

I think this will help. But, I don’t know if it will help enough.

So I’m turning to all of you out in Readerland, not just Bartlesville residents.

You see, I’m working on an afghan. If you follow me on Instagram or are friends with me on Facebook, you may have seen a photo of the afghan in progress. Below you’ll see just a bit more progress.

Beginning of the afghan

Beginning of the afghan

I’m making an afghan-of-many-colors out of the ridiculously large stash of yarn I own. (A lot of it was given to me by very generous folks who had too much yarn themselves, lol.) What you see here is one row, and part of a second row, of what will be 18 rows of multicolored rectangles. I’m already really excited by how it’s turning out.

For a better idea of what this afghan will look like when it’s finished, you can see a photo here: http://www.lionbrand.com/stores/lionbrand/pictures/l20376a.jpg

How would you like to own this? Or maybe a pair of handknitted fingerless gloves? Or a behatted teddy bear? Or a set of crocheted coasters or a scarf?

If this sounds good to you, then maybe you’d like to participate in my raffle!

You may remember that a few years ago, I had a charity raffle to benefit relief efforts in Japan after the devastating tsunami. This will work very similarly to that, except that the proceeds will go toward helping my daughter get to Disneyland with her band.

Here’s what I’m going to do: I’ll sell raffle tickets for $1 per ticket. You will buy as many tickets as you like. You can buy as few as one or as many as… well, as many as you want! Obviously, the more tickets you buy, the better your chances are of winning a prize.

The raffle tickets will sell for one week. At the end of the sale time, I will hold the raffle by drawing numbers using http://www.random.org/, a random number generator. I’ll draw however many prizes I have total (I’ll have at least 4 prizes available, possibly more), and then notify the winners. The prizes will go out as soon as possible. Most prizes will have no more than a week’s turnaround in shipping; the afghan may take a little longer, depending on how long it takes me to finish it.

So what do you guys think? Would you be willing to support a raffle like this? I know it’s not a charitable cause. But it would be an opportunity to help create a great experience for my daughter — and you have a chance to win some fun prizes. (She will be helping with the prizes, by the way; I’ve taught her to crochet, and she’ll be crocheting the squares that will become either a coaster set, a scarf, or perhaps even both.)

Please let me know if you’d like to participate! You can leave a comment here, on Facebook, or on Twitter.

Road to Redemption: The Peculiar Case of Neil Harman

A few days ago, my new tennis blogging friend Matt Zemek wrote what I’m sure wasn’t intended to be eerily prescient, but wound up being so anyway: a column about “sports forgiveness,” or how much we are/can be/should be willing to forgive an athlete’s misdeeds.

I found it an intriguing little piece, absorbing and thought-provoking. And when the news came out about the plagiarism of Neil Harman, writer for the London Times, I soon thought of Matt’s column.

The news first broke on the Changeover blog. The sporting website Deadspin expanded on the story. Then, finally, came Ben Rothenberg’s article on Slate, detailing just how far and deep and wide went the plagiarism (as well as the knowledge of it).

As I often do when tennis-related news breaks, I spent a lot of time perusing my tennis timeline on Twitter, reading the reactions of others. I saw, first, a lot of reactions just like mine, which can be represented thusly:

1. Complete and utter shock. “Neil Harman did WHAT?!” Most of the people on my timeline are not great fans of his, yet most never dreamed that he would commit the incredibly serious journalistic crime of plagiarism.

2. Dismay. “How could he be so stupid?? He’s been a journalist for a long, long time!” Without really knowing precisely what he had plagiarized (at first, anyway), it was hard to know how he could have done something so dumb, something that every journalist knows is a huge no-no.

3. Sadness. Most of us were dismayed at the end of what had been a rather respected career. For after so great a breach of trust, I personally couldn’t see how Harman would have a career in journalism anymore, and I think most agreed with me.

However, as more details came out as to the breadth of this thing, I saw the opinions on my timeline begin to fracture. I personally did not see anyone say how much they empathized with Harman, but I read others’ surprise at seeing empathy for him. I was very surprised to see a journalist tweet to Harman saying, in effect, “everyone makes mistakes… no biggie.”

I saw anger develop, both toward Harman and toward Wimbledon. Some of that was my own. I remain not so much angry with Harman as puzzled — primarily with how “shocked” he kept saying he was at hearing that he had committed plagiarism. I, along with many others, wondered how on earth you could plagiarize without meaning to. Harman steadfastly maintained that he “must have forgotten” to attribute material, time and again, because of the tremendous time pressure he was under to churn out the annual Wimbledon yearbook.

I personally felt a heck of a lot more anger towards Wimbledon, who found out that Harman had plagiarized material for one of their yearbooks (never mind, for the moment, that he had actually plagiarized for a lot more than simply one yearbook) and then did precisely nothing about it. Oh, sorry. They told him he wouldn’t be authoring the 2014 yearbook. But he still received a press credential, he was still asked to write something about Andy Murray for the Wimbledon program, and he was still invited to the Champions’ Dinner. What’s more, they didn’t even pull the yearbook from their online store or physical store until one of the journalists he had plagiarized confronted Wimbledon about it.

This was where I started thinking about the whole idea of “sports forgiveness” that Matt brought up in his piece. Obviously this was not a question of forgiving an athlete as much as forgiving a sports writer. But some of the same questions came into play.

Here is where I am coming from. I am a Christian, and as such I believe very strongly in the tenet of forgiveness. However, in Christianity we view forgiveness mostly in regards to people we have some sort of relationship with, good or bad. Forgiveness is not an option for a Christian, but a requirement, to anyone who has hurt them. There are a number of reasons for this that I won’t get into, but one of the strongest reasons is because refusing to forgive causes us to think more highly of ourselves than of someone else. And that is one of the very things that Christians are called upon to not do.

Christians are also, however, called upon to extend mercy to people who have been wronged and hurt. Plagiarism hurts so many people. It hurts the people whose words are plagiarized. It hurts the reputation of the publication in which the plagiarism appears. It hurts the readers who no longer know who to trust.

I feel bad for Neil Harman. And I don’t feel bad for him. I feel bad for him because his reputation is now shot and his career is in ruins. I feel bad for him because somehow, in some way, his journalistic ethos went out the window in choosing to plagiarize. I feel bad for him because he had a terrible series of lapses in judgment — which all of us has had at some point or other — and now he will pay dearly for it. I even feel bad for him because he seems so confused as to how it happened.

However, I don’t feel bad for him because he chose to do this. I would assume he believed he would never get caught. Perhaps he assumed that the All-England Club had better things to do than to make sure everything in the yearbooks he wrote were either his own unique work or properly attributed. Perhaps he assumed that readers who stumbled across previously-written words in his yearbook would write it off as déjà vu. Perhaps he simply assumed that no one would really care. (That certainly seems to be the case for Wimbledon, if Rothenberg’s article is any indication.)

I sincerely hope that Harman, as a fellow human being, can turn this around. I hope he learns from his mistakes and stays a million miles away from the dark road that led him to believe plagiarism was an option. I hope he can rebuild his career. I also hope he learns to show true, real remorse, rather than the current apology that makes it sound like all of this was just a terrible accident and a brief lapse in professionalism.

I’m not sure I can really discuss “forgiveness” as it relates to Harman. He didn’t hurt me personally. He hurt a lot of others, though — the writers he plagiarized, the readers who purchased his yearbooks, possibly even the newspaper he works for. He even hurt the profession of journalism, at least in the tennis world, as it will be tempting for tennis fans to lump all journalists in with Harman and declare “they’re all a bunch of hacks!”

For their sake, I hope Harman finds true remorse in himself and will take it upon himself to apologize to the people he wronged. I think they deserve that much. And I think the road to redemption will be much shorter if he can fully admit to his wrongdoings and sincerely seek their forgiveness. Theirs is the forgiveness he needs. Not mine.

A Fan’s Perspective: Petra Kvitova & Novak Djokovic

While I, like most of the rest of the tennis world, first came to know Petra Kvitova when she won the 2011 Wimbledon championships, I first became her fan at the Year-Ending Championships (YEC) the same year.

That fandom had a bizarre beginning. Why, you might ask? What drew me so to this shy 21-year-old who happened to win Wimbledon and then the YEC?

She shrieked.

She didn’t shriek during points, vis-à-vis Maria Sharapova or Victoria Azarenka. No, Petra let out a pterydactyl-like shriek of “POJD!” after every winning point. I know a lot of people detested it. But I adored it. I think I related to the unbridled enthusiasm that led to that piercing exultation.

As I watched Petra win the YEC, I – along with much of the tennis world- felt like I was seeing the next World #1.

That, of course, was not meant to be. Azarenka, Sharapova, and Williams played Ping-Pong with the #1 ranking, resting finally with Williams. Petra, meanwhile, stumbled early and often, increasingly revealing a maddening inconsistency and tendency to struggle to control her nerves.

Yet even as frustrating as it was for me to watch her fail to fulfill her potential again and again, at the same time I learned more about her as a person (outside of her tennis), and it made me like her more. I learned she was shy and found coping with her Wimbledon fame difficult. (That’s something I can understand, as a shy person myself.) I learned she was down-to-earth and sweet. I learned she was a hard worker, constantly working to improve her fitness, patience, and nerve.

When Petra joined Twitter, I followed her immediately, and her persona there left her down-to-earth fingerprints everywhere. After her losses, she would thank fans for their support and promise to continue working hard, which I found endearing.

Sometime between 2013 and now, Petra earned the somewhat mocking nickname of “P3TRA,” owing to her unfortunate propensity for playing 3-set matches, almost regardless of the level of her opponent. How she found out about the nickname, I don’t know, but she did and embraced it. A few times she tweeted and referred to herself with that nickname, like so:

https://twitter.com/Petra_Kvitova/status/443218506440392704

If there’s anyone I love more than a down-to-earth sweetheart, it’s a down-to-earth sweetheart who doesn’t take herself seriously. Petra’s embrace of P3TRA made me love her all the more.

After Wimbledon 2013, when Petra lost to Kirsten Flipkens in the quarterfinals, I basically gave up hope that she would win another major title. But I couldn’t stop being her fan. By this time, not only was I a fan of the person, I was also a diehard fan of the game.

When she’s on, Petra has an easy power that enables her to hit jaw-dropping winners from anywhere on the court. She has a great lefty serve and deceptively sweet touch at the net. Her movement, traditionally a liability (tough to move a 6-foot frame quickly), has improved over the years.

Sure, there’s lots to admire in the games of the other top women: the nearly weakness-free, devastating power and variety of Serena; the tough-as-nails and never-say-die attitude of Maria; the creativity and variety of Aga Radwanska; the consistency and toughness of Victoria. But I can’t help adoring Petra Kvitova — maddening inconsistency, frustrating nerves, P3TRA and all.

No one’s winning smile makes me happier. And I am so very, very proud of her for having made the Wimbledon final once again. She might not win, but she’s fought so much nonsense within herself to get there.

My love affair with Novak Djokovic goes back far longer ago than my Petra fandom. It’s necessary to start with a bit of background. I was a diehard Pete Sampras fan from 1990 to his retirement in 2003. For several years afterward, I barely kept track of tennis, and so I wasn’t really ready to embrace a new dominant champion. In fact, Roger Federer’s dominance kind of offended me. People embraced him far more readily than they embraced Pete, and he started threatening (and overtaking) all of my boy’s records.

For that reason I was delighted by the emergence of Rafael Nadal when he began to challenge Federer. But I couldn’t quite bring myself to fully embrace him either. It might have been that I couldn’t bring myself to adore his game. Call it elitist and snobbish if you must, but I couldn’t bring myself to love his grinding game after years of adoring the floating Sampras (and the balletic Stefan Edberg before him).

Then, in 2007, I heard bits and pieces, rumblings if you will, about some Serbian kid named Novak Djokovic. I heard he had started challenging Federer and Nadal a bit, even beating them both at a hard court Masters tournament. I didn’t pay a tremendous amount of attention, though, until the U.S. Open. I don’t remember the round, but I remembered feeling a little frustrated with my lack of whole-hearted desire to follow tennis, and then I happened to turn on the TV and found that Novak was about to play.

I thought, I’ve heard of this guy, but I’ve never seen him play. Let’s check him out.

It was love at first sight. I fell head-over-heels in love with his tennis. I loved the defense. I loved how he seemed to track everything down and send it back with interest. I loved his easy, fluid service motion. I loved his spirit and fight.

And then, after he won, the on-court interviewer asked him if he would be willing to do some impersonations. After he impersonated both Maria and Rafa, I died laughing and fell even more deeply in love. This boy, I thought, has SPUNK. He’s FUN.

I never looked back, and 7 years later, I’m still proud to be a Novak Djokovic fan.

Much like Petra Kvitova, I found out more about Novak off-court over the years, and it led me to love him even more. I learned about his intense love for his home country of Serbia and all the work he did to try to better life for the natives of his homeland. I saw his tremendous sense of humor and refusal to take himself too seriously.

On court, aside from the tennis, I saw a lot to admire as well. I saw the applause for his opponents’ winners, both when he was ahead in the scoreline and when he was behind. I saw the willingness to concede points to his opponents after faulty line calls – again, both from a winning and a losing position. I saw the deep respect for everyone on the court. I saw genuine handshakes as well as hugs after matches both won and lost.

Over the years I’ve heard a lot of complaints about some of the things Novak has done that had him labeled as “arrogant” or “disrespectful” or even “classless.” Some of these things, of course, I wish he wouldn’t have done. I’ll forever cringe at the memory of the 2008 U.S. Open post-match interview following a win over Andy Roddick. I wasn’t really paying much attention to tennis after Novak retired from a match versus Rafa at the French Open and asserted that he had been “in control” of said match, but if I had been, I probably also would have considered him arrogant (as well as ridiculous).

However… no one is perfect, and especially when one is young and has been deeply invested in by his family since he was even younger, mistakes and missteps are inevitable. But I have seen Novak grow and mature and settle into an young man (I’m 13 years older than he is, I can call him “young!”) who conducts himself with great dignity and integrity.

I am fully aware that Novak continues to have tremendous flaws, some of which absolutely harm him on the court. One of them is his desperation for crowd love. I hate that crowds so often root against him, but I hate even more that he lets it affect him as much as it does. Maybe because I have fought with a lifelong desperation for people to like me, it frustrates me that he hasn’t yet learned to let it go. He has certainly gotten better, but he’s still a work in progress.

Of course, like most of Novak’s fans, I’m also frustrated by his recent difficulties in Grand Slam finals. We were spoiled by his near-inability to lose major matches in 2011 and the beginning of 2012, only to see him crash and burn repeatedly on the sport’s biggest stages since then. Though he’s been arguably the most consistent man on the tour over the past 4 years, it’s devastating to see so few Grand Slam titles result from all that consistency.

But much like I can’t quit Petra, even with her struggles, I know I’ll never quit my Novak fandom either. I’ve watched tennis for most of my life, and not a single player has made me as fiercely proud to be a fan as Novak Djokovic has. On and off the court, no tennis player has delighted me more.

And after all his difficulties, I couldn’t be prouder that Novak keeps reaching the final round of majors, including this one.

Godspeed, Petra Kvitova and Novak Djokovic. Best wishes for your Wimbledon finals. I’ll continue to love you both, no matter what happens.

Goodbye, Thundering Thirties. Hello, Flowering Forties.

Before I began to write this, I watched Wimbledon for a few minutes. I love that Wimbledon, the ultimate tournament in my favorite sport, starts right around my birthday. Some years it actually starts the very same day. Other years it’s a day or two before or after.

I’m not writing because it’s the first day of Wimbledon, though. I’m writing because today is my final day of my 30s. Tomorrow I will be 40.

I had this idea that I would write about why the 30s have been my favorite decade of life. About how I’ve quit living my life under a dark cloud of insecurity and fear. How I’ve embraced who I am. Et cetera.

Then I started thinking a little more carefully about my life’s last 10 years, and I realized that some of my darkest moments have happened during this decade. For instance, at age 32, just after having my second daughter (which should have been one of the happiest moments of my life), Eric and I filed for bankruptcy. That was a process that would drag out for the next 2 years or so.

Bankruptcy sounds great, in one sense, because theoretically you get to walk away from your debts. (Not that Eric and I filed thinking “oh yay, our worries are over!”) But in actuality, what it means is that your bankruptcy “trustee” goes looking through your entire life awaiting the opportunity to pounce on any ounce of flesh s/he can find. And she found it again and again until finally we were able to satisfy her.

Five years later, both Eric and I entered one of the most intensely stressful and anxiety-filled times of our lives, as Eric’s employment was in jeopardy and, finally, terminated. Eric worked very, very hard to find a new job, extending his search across the entire country, and that summer was incredibly hard on us. I spent the entire summer trying not to panic.

A week or so before Eric’s salary from his old job would stop, he found a new job that would take us halfway across the country and would necessitate a hefty salary cut. But it was work, and we jumped at the chance. While we were both sad to leave our families behind, we were also grateful for what we saw as the opportunity for a truly fresh start. Our lives in Ohio had become stagnant and depressed.

Upon moving to Oklahoma, while I experienced intense homesickness (more for my friends and family than the town we had just left, which was largely a town devoid of vitality), I also felt hope for the first time. Hope that things could be different, that we could rediscover life within ourselves.

And you know what… I’m not entirely sure that would have happened had it not been for the most difficult three- to four-month period of my life the following year.

On the exact same day, January 29, 2012, my eardrums burst and my father died.

Here’s what happens when your eardrums burst. First, of course, there’s a lot of pain. I would not wish the pain of burst eardrums on anyone. But worse than the pain is the isolation. It’s all but impossible to hear properly when your eardrums are damaged. It made me feel completely alone, even when I was surrounded by people.

And that was combined with the worst loss of my life.

I felt incredibly acute misery. I was in pain, I couldn’t hear so I felt totally alone, I was grieving my father, and oh yeah, I was thousands of miles from my friends and family, with whom I could have had found comfort.

What happened next was that I felt the presence of God in my life like never before.

Oh, I had reached out to God during our bankruptcy process and, of course, while Eric was looking for a new job. But I’m not sure I really clung to God, really sought His presence and climbed into His lap for comfort, the way I did when I felt so much pain and isolation. And it’s because I had to. I had no other choice. My husband was working. My family was far, far from me. Even both my daughters were now in school.

I found this passage in Beth Moore’s book The Beloved Disciple this morning:

If life were completely manageable, we’d manage on our own strength, and no one would see the living proof of God’s existence in us.

And that’s just it. If my life–if my thirties–had been completely manageable, I would have had no idea of just how much God can handle for me. I’d have had no idea what it means to be tested and tried. I would still be weak and insecure, just like I was in my 20s.

(I want to add quickly that God not only revealed Himself to me in private, but also in the form of others. I had the chance to return to Ohio to spend time with my family. I also had an incredible outpouring of love, affection, and comfort, not only from my friends from around the country, but also from people I barely knew at the church I had just started attending. God’s love flooded me, thanks to about a hundred people in my life.)

Yes, I’m not as worried that other people won’t like me as I used to be. Yes, I feel freer to be myself, knowing full well that I won’t be to everyone’s taste. A lot of people will find me weird. A lot of people will be annoyed that I never have quite lost that Hermione Granger-ish tendency to blurt out the right answer when I get the chance. A lot of people will find my sappiness disgusting. A lot of people will find it stupid that I can’t handle intense movies or TV shows. A lot of people will squirm because I not only believe in God, I talk to Him every day and I believe He answers me.

And I would like to say that my 30s were awesome because I found the ability to be myself without the crippling worry that no one would like me because of it. But in reality, that’s only a slice of it, the popular view, the one that Oprah would probably applaud.

What I really have to say is that my 30s were awesome because a lot of the time, they really sucked… and that’s how I found out just how abundant God’s grace and mercy are.

I can’t wait to see what my 40s have in store for me.

Bring it on.

My Dad’s Birthday, Plus: What’s New with Me

Today would have been my dad’s 72nd birthday. I’ve been thinking about him a lot today. In fact, after spending most of the morning working on my blog (more about that later), I thought about how he had said, well before it ever became a reality, that writing a monetized blog would be a fantastic fit for me.

Here's a Throwback Thursday photo for you: My dad, me (with normal hair!!) and Kiersten, after she had  had an unfortunate incident with a pair of scissors...

Here’s a Throwback Thursday photo for you: My dad, me (with normal hair!!) and Kiersten, after she had had an unfortunate incident with a pair of scissors…

Now, this was back when I started my music blog (cleverly called Nicole Eclectic’s ‘Caps & ‘Views, though when I first started it, I called it “Music for Grownups”). My husband Eric, upon hearing that several of the musicians I wrote about had read their entries themselves and spread the word about those entries, told me that I might be able to make money with it. It felt like a stretch to me, at the time, but Eric can be very persuasive.

Anyway, we were on our way to my parents’ house one day, possibly even the day Eric started trying to encourage me to make something of my blog, and as we were walking into the house Eric started talking to my dad about it. Just, off the cuff, out of the blue. (He can do that. I can’t.)

Before I continue, let me just say that my father was what one might consider a bit of a Luddite. He was proud to be as old-fashioned as possible. He hated computers and pretty much every form of technology. He didn’t even like cell phones. I’m not sure he even cared for cordless landline phones. (TVs were a different matter, although I’m pretty sure they started getting too complex for him by his death. To be fair, they have started to become that way to me as well!)

I say this because when Eric started talking to my dad about the possibility of my making money by writing a music blog, this should have been the sort of conversation that would have my dad retorting, “a music what? What on earth is a blog? It sounds like something disgusting.”

However, this was different. For all I know, Dad didn’t even hear the term “blog.” He heard “Nicole” and “writing” and “making money” and he was nodding his head eagerly. He believed 100 percent that I could absolutely do something like that and earn money with it, even though I’m sure he had no idea whatsoever what a blog was.

That was my dad. He may have been of a generation that wasn’t too sure about this whole “women can do anything men can do” business started by the feminist movement, but he never for a moment questioned that I could do anything I wanted. Especially when it came to writing. My dad was pretty well convinced I was going to be one of the great writers of my generation. Or something like that!

I’m going to turn 40 in just 12 days, and I don’t think I’m anywhere close to being one of the great writers of my generation. (If only because I’m not entirely sure any generation has ever had more writers! The market is about flooded.)

But, I am about to embark on something that my dad always believed I could do. I am about to run my own blog and e-newsletter.

If you follow me on Facebook or Twitter, you already know about this. But here are a few more details, because even if you do already know about it, I haven’t really said a whole lot on social media.

I have been writing for an e-newsletter called the Knitting Nuggets Newsletter for the past 3 years. I’ve done this as an independent contractor working for a small business called Lanford, Inc. Lanford has been owned several websites and e-newsletters over the years, and KNN was one of her pet projects. The owner, Audri, is an avid knitter herself, and she loves charity knitting in particular.

Knitting Nuggets Newsletter puts out three different types of newsletters: “Make a Difference Monday” relates to charity knitting; “Frugal Friday” is all about knitting on a budget; and “Fun Friday” can be just about anything relating to knitting. Make a Difference Monday, of course, comes out every Monday; the Friday newsletters run every Friday, alternating between “Frugal” and “Fun.”

About a year into my tenure as a KNN writer, my editor asked me if I would be willing to also write blog posts for the Knitting for Charity website. I had fallen quite in love with writing the Knitting Nuggets Newslettter, and I was thrilled to be given the opportunity to write for the website as well.

Two years later, having written two KNNs a week and two KFC articles a week, I had a phone meeting with my editor, Stephanie, who confided that Audri was ready to leave KFC and KNN. She was no longer making enough of a profit on the site to justify its existence. (Understandable, when you consider all the other activities on her plate, plus the fact that she had to pay me to write for them and Stephanie to edit and upload articles and newsletters.)

She then asked me if I would like to purchase it from Audri. She encouraged me to think it over and then get back to her, but to be honest, I was ready almost from the moment she mentioned the idea.

As much as I loved writing for KFC and KNN, I was a hired gun. I wasn’t the one in charge of the writing. While I had a tremendous amount of freedom to write about what I wanted to write about, ultimately I still had some confines that I had to follow, especially with the newsletters. I longed to have my own blog that I was able to pour myself into and actually help support my family through it.

But the last thing I envisioned was taking this site over. I had assumed Audri would keep it for life; I knew it was her baby, in a sense.

Here’s the amazing thing about this opportunity: Knitting for Charity has been around for over 8 years. It has an enormous list of subscribers to the Knitting Nuggets Newsletter. It has a thriving Facebook page and a well-supported Twitter page.

By purchasing this domain and mailing list, I wouldn’t have to start from scratch. I would basically just be continuing the work I had done for the past 2 to 3 years, but this time I would really reap the benefits. I would be able to use my own identity (I have been ghost-writing the newsletters and articles), extend any monetization that had already begun… the sky could be the limit!

Without getting into all the sticky financial details, I can tell you that I made Audri an offer after discussing it with Eric, and about two weeks later, she and her husband accepted.

The transition has not been seamless, but it hasn’t been too bumpy either. I registered “Knitting for Charity.org” with the Secretary of State, purchased web hosting based on Audri’s husband’s recommendation, and signed up for an account with AWeber, the e-mail host the Lanfords have used for years. Audri’s husband did the technical stuff like move the website to my host and transfer the mailing list to my account.

Stephanie trained me on uploading website posts and using the e-mail list host. That took about an hour… Stephanie is a great trainer! Also, it is a pretty easy process.

My first very own KNN will go out tomorrow. (Tomorrow!) And my first website post will go live late tonight. (Eep!) I’m incredibly excited.

This hasn’t been without hitches or bumps. One problem is that four pages on the website need to be edited (so it has my information rather than Lanford Inc’s), but no one has yet figured out how to do that. The site uses blogging software called Movable Type for updates, and I can use it acceptably well. However, those four pages are not accessible with Movable Type. Audri’s husband spent a lot of time yesterday trying to figure out how to make them editable but hasn’t yet found a solution.

(Incidentally, the more I write this post, the more I think of things I should be doing or checking on with the site and the e-mail list. I’m trying to concentrate, I swear!)

Now then. If any of my friendly neighborhood blog followers are interested in knitting, I would love for you to subscribe to the Knitting Nuggets Newsletter. The link to subscribe is here. And, if you like it and think other friends would like it too, I’d be forever in your debt if you shared it.

Anyway, that is what I have been up to the past several weeks. Well, that and Vacation Bible School. But that’s probably a story for another blog post…

Nicole’s Knitting Corner: Fingerless Mitts, Featuring Owls & Skulls

Okay, Friday was crazy. Sorry for not getting this up yesterday.

But I do have some new knitting to show off, and I didn’t want this to become a Big Thing Hanging Over My Head. So I’m breaking one of my own rules to show it off today, on Saturday. I can do that because it’s my blog.

Anyway…

So first, I’ve been working on a commission. I made some “owlie” fingerless mitts for a friend of mine a couple years ago. They were gray with blue embroidered eyes. Recently my friend told me she lost them and asked if I would knit her another pair.

I was delighted to do so. These are so easy to knit, and I never fail to get a huge kick out of the cabled stitches that create the “owl” shapes.

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As you can see, these are nearly done. I have one last owlie cable round to finish at the top, the bind-off, and then the thumb. I may also add a crocheted edge to the bottom. It’s rolling up, and I’m not fond of the look.

I’ve put these on hold for now, however, because I’m making these.

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What are these, you ask? They’re fingerless mitts (knitted flat — they still have to be seamed) with little skulls on them. I made these for a friend’s son who just had open-heart surgery — yesterday, in fact. No worries, he came through with flying colors. He’ll have a long road of recovery ahead of him, but he’ll be just fine.

All that’s left, aside from the seaming, is to graft on the thumbs. I’ve never done stranded colorwork before I did those little skulls, but it wasn’t anywhere near as nervewracking as I had always assumed it would be. In fact, it was fun.

I can’t wait to find out how he reacts when he receives these little beauties.

There you have it – the knitting that has occupied my time the past couple of weeks.

I have a special project coming up that involves knitting too, but I’m going to wait until I finish these two projects before I launch into it. I can’t wait to tell you all about it. Hopefully some of you will want to get involved with it as well. (Whatever is she talking about?! You’ll see!)

Till next time!

Nicole’s Knitting Corner: Finishing the Monkey and Starting a Pony (with a smattering of crochet)

Welcome back to Nicole’s Knitting Corner! Apologies for my absence last week — it was a very hectic week, and I just couldn’t get a blog post out. I might make this feature every other Friday rather than every Friday. I don’t know yet. We’ll see.

Anyway, so in my last post I showed you how I started the monkey for my friend’s younger son. Very early this week, I finished him.
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